You take your self with you, can't run from unwanted. Thus you have to find that sweet spot. You have to piviot to the place where your inner being is.

Abraham answering a question ...Abe Now, 1/28/26, part 1, 52:10 – Sweet Spot

Q: And as soon as I was with my dad, there was intense resistance. It was a very challenging morning. And when I left his house, I experienced deep rage.

And while I would appreciate deeper consideration and mutual care, I feel like this contrast may be pointing towards letting go of familial loyalty. Almost like, I'm not willing to tolerate this degree of disconnection moving forward.

I'd love your insight for deeper growth, and how to navigate this balance moving forward. Thank you!

A: Abraham, I'm experiencing this uncomfortable situation at work, or in a relationship. And should I just walk away from this? Just let go of it.” As you said, the responsibility of it.

And there have been times when that has been our encouragement. But always we say, if where you are is not pleasing to you, then you better leave this house. But you'll be taking yourself with you.

And so, then you're gonna have to leave your town, too. But you'll be taking yourself with you. And then you have to leave your region and your country. And then you have to leave your planet. And now we don't know where to send you.

In other words… Because you take yourself with you. You take yourself with you. You take that resentment with you.

And what happens to most people when you find yourself feeling something… There is this thing that kicks in to your human way of going about things that makes you want to justify how you be right now.

I am enraged right now. I am furious right now. And then you want to justify it by blaming the circumstances, or the other person, or the situation, or even yourself. And then you decide you're just gonna abandon all of that. But you can't, because you can't abandon practiced vibrations.

So, now let's think about the conversation that we had with our friend earlier, who was physically hurting. And we would like to help you find relief from your emotional pain.

And just like… We know for certain that your dad is in all kinds of emotional pain, physical discomfort, but more emotional than physical discomfort. Afraid of dying, afraid of not getting better, worried about what will become of him, who will take care of him. Not feeling good about having to ask things of someone who is not feeling good about giving them.

In other words, there's a whole lot of pain going on. But you can't do anything about his cancer. And you can't do anything about his fear. And you can't do anything about his obnoxious behavior, that is really a byproduct of all of that discord. Because he hasn't learned to meet his inner being in his sweet spot or basket.

But you can. You've learned enough. You know enough. And it doesn't mean that you have to give in to the demands of another. But it does mean you have to find your sweet spot.

You could say that your vortex is full of your desires. And we could even call those desires demands, couldn't we? Couldn't we say that your vortex…? You've bounced things into it. All kinds of things that you want. You could call them desires. You could call them demands.

And you could say that your inner being, who is so focused and calibrated to all of those desires, therefore is demanding of you that you get there too, in order to ease the pain of not being there.

Except that your inner being has the ability to focus on the sweet spot of your basket. Your inner being is never, ever, not one time ever, calling you to something beyond your ability to reach right now.

Because your inner being knows where your basket is. And your inner being is proud of you, and where you are in relationship to your basket.

So, what you're looking for is a sweet spot. And it's not about your dad being nicer. It's about your reaction. Your reaction to what? Through all of this, what you keep wanting is to feel good.

• When you look at the events that are happening in your world today… Lots of you writing in, videoing in, from Minneapolis, a real hot spot of contention and struggle and strife.

Where do you think your inner beings are? Are your inner beings saying to you, “Well you just need to buck up and get over it. You need to look at unwanted things and accept them.”

Or is your inner being saying, “Hey, you've bounced a lot of desire over here. And we're tending to your desire. And we'll hold the spot for you.

“And eventually, we know you'll find it. But meanwhile, we'll meet you anywhere between where you are and where you want to be, for support, and ease, and relief, and sustenance.”