Your inner being meets you in that sweet spot.

Abe Now, 1/28/26, part 2, 8:42 – Be More Inner Being-like

Q: Hi Abraham. Thank you for being there when I need to ask you a question. I kind of feel like I should know the answer, but I just don’t. There are a couple of people in my family who I just can't get on with, and this is really unlike me. I get on with everybody.

There's one in particular who lives in fear, so I try and keep my vibration high. But I didn't really manage it very well recently. There's another person that's come into the family that just rubs me up the wrong way.

And I understand about easy existing matches. I understand about being in the vortex, getting in the vortex, being spit out of the vortex.

But have you got any other advice about what I can do when I'm being triggered by these people, and my body feels horrible, and I just don't want to be near them, when I have to be?

It's a bit of a tricky situation. But I'm sure you can help me. Thank you.

A: You said something that can't be true. You said two things that sort of contradicted each other. You said, “There are some people in my life that I just can't get along with.” and “I get along with everybody.”

And so, let’s play with that just a little bit. Because the reason it seems to you that you’re getting along with everybody, is because most of the people that you encounter are strangers. You don’t know that much about them.

You don't have any negative expectations because you don't have any history with them. So it's easier to get along with those people that you don't have any negative momentum with.

But it is more difficult to get along with… It's easier to not get along with those people that you do have negative momentum with, isn't it? It's logical because your expectation, like our friend was saying, your expectation is that it goes that way.

At one point, when we were having a conversation sort of like this, way back in the early days of Jerry and Esther meeting up with us, Jerry said, “Abraham, I can’t quite get my head around this. Because I don’t think I had negative expectations of that person until they gave me a reason to have negative expectations.”

In other words, they were behaving in such and such a way, and then I did respond to that. And of course, that's not an inaccurate statement.

In other words, it's talking about conditional love, liking the conditions that you like and not liking the conditions that you don't like. And it’s talking about not having control of the way you feel beyond what you’re witnessing.

But out ahead of that, out ahead of feeling like you need to control conditions, is attracting deliberately. It's practicing a vibration that helps you to find what feels the best.

Now, take a little leap with us here. We're gonna… We think you can do it. We're going to ask you to stretch into this thought.

Earlier we said to you that your inner being does not demand of you to join it in that most supreme, perfect, vortex of attraction. Your inner being’s there, with the best of the best that you've figured out that you want. But you heard us say today that your inner being meets you in the sweet spot, meets you where you put your basket.

In other words, this is our way of saying to you that your inner being is more interested… Hear this. Your inner being is most interested in maintaining alignment with pure, positive energy. Most important. So your inner being knows how to focus on you and still accomplish that.

Did you hear that? That was a big, big, big realization, if you heard it.

Your inner being can remain connected to Source energy, while at the same time seeing you where you are. Because your inner being will never blame you, or feel disappointment, or think that you should be doing something other than what you are doing.

And when you are able to let others be as your inner beings are able to let all of you be, then you will not misunderstand creation, and mess up your own vibration by believing that you need to demand perfection from others.

That was pretty big.

If you need another to behave in a particular way in order for you to not have a reaction that doesn't feel good to you, you really want to work on your reaction thing.

You might want to start saying, I want to be more inner being-like. I want to be in love, no matter what you're doing. I want to feel good so much that I tune to what does feel good.

And then you can be wherever you want to be, and you won't be the reason that I take my dip, because I'm no longer calibrating to you. I'm calibrating to my inner being. And I'm doing it with ease, because I care about feeling good. From wherever I am, I'm going to feel as good as I can feel.

I'm going to find as much comfort as I can find, right here, right now, in my bed with my leg throbbing. I'm going to find as much comfort as I can find.

I'm gonna put a pillow between my legs, and for a minute, the pillow is going to stand out most. I'm gonna snuggle down under the blankets and get my pillow wrapped around me just right. And for just a moment, that's what's going to be dominant.

I'm going to watch the sun come up incrementally. I'm not going to expect it to be dark, then light. Because it's never like that.